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Help me? :l
So, I've been friends with my best friend (guy) since Kindergarten. We're insanely close, I'm texting him right not, actually xD.
My other best friend and friends have always teased us saying that we're a couple, or how perfect we are together..We always just shook it off and told them we're friends.
Then we would hug sometimes (it didn't mean anything); and once he kissed me on the cheek (he said it was a dare); and people REALLY started thinking we were dating :l
Well, the other day, we were playing Truth or Dare, and my friend asked him who he liked, and he said "I can't say." So we all asked why and he said "She's in this room."
And we made eye contact.. When we finished playing, my other guy friend came up to me and said "___ likes you." I'm starting to believe him, because now all of my other friends are texting me saying the same thing..
I'm so confused. He's always complimented me on my outfits, helping me when I'm insecure, gets a little jealous when I talk about other guys (xD) etc, but.. You know, I thought we're just friends..
-Sigh- I just really needed to vent in some way and write out the whole story xD
What do you guys think I should do? Talk to him about it? I'm not even sure how I feel about him, I've never really thought about relationships..
My other best friend and friends have always teased us saying that we're a couple, or how perfect we are together..We always just shook it off and told them we're friends.
Then we would hug sometimes (it didn't mean anything); and once he kissed me on the cheek (he said it was a dare); and people REALLY started thinking we were dating :l
Well, the other day, we were playing Truth or Dare, and my friend asked him who he liked, and he said "I can't say." So we all asked why and he said "She's in this room."
And we made eye contact.. When we finished playing, my other guy friend came up to me and said "___ likes you." I'm starting to believe him, because now all of my other friends are texting me saying the same thing..
I'm so confused. He's always complimented me on my outfits, helping me when I'm insecure, gets a little jealous when I talk about other guys (xD) etc, but.. You know, I thought we're just friends..
-Sigh- I just really needed to vent in some way and write out the whole story xD
What do you guys think I should do? Talk to him about it? I'm not even sure how I feel about him, I've never really thought about relationships..
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Re: Help me? :l
Ask him if he likes you honestly.
To me it seems as if he does indeed like you. But sometimes guys are just kind.
To me it seems as if he does indeed like you. But sometimes guys are just kind.
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Wow. So lucky. haha I'm serious. D:
But anyways, yeah, I agree with what Frozen said. Ask him. And I'm just wondering but, do you like him that way?
Keep us posted!!!
Oh and by the way, you posted that last one at 11:11 PM O:
But anyways, yeah, I agree with what Frozen said. Ask him. And I'm just wondering but, do you like him that way?
Keep us posted!!!
Oh and by the way, you posted that last one at 11:11 PM O:
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Re: Help me? :l
@butterscotch- hm, not sure how i'm lucky, but I'll take it! xD
a few months ago, i liked him, but I figured we were just friends, so I tried forgetting about it.. I'm not sure if those feelings have gone away or not, if that makes since xD
Thanks guys; I think tomorrow, since we're going to the pool, I'll ask him :3
a few months ago, i liked him, but I figured we were just friends, so I tried forgetting about it.. I'm not sure if those feelings have gone away or not, if that makes since xD
Thanks guys; I think tomorrow, since we're going to the pool, I'll ask him :3
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Taylor:3 wrote:@butterscotch- hm, not sure how i'm lucky, but I'll take it! xD
a few months ago, i liked him, but I figured we were just friends, so I tried forgetting about it.. I'm not sure if those feelings have gone away or not, if that makes since xD
Thanks guys; I think tomorrow, since we're going to the pool, I'll ask him :3
to have a guy like that who cares for you and stuff. (': it's just too sweet.
awwww! that's so cute. seriously XDDD I "aww"ed out loud when I read that.
Good luck! (:
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Wow, you are so lucky that you still get to see him. I'm away from my crush now, and it hurts so much because he likes me back, but I'm afraid everyday that he'll forget about me and meet someone else...
But with this situation, since he IS your best friend, then you need to just go up to him and ask him. BUT, before you do that, make a list of the things you like about him and the things you don't like about him. Does he make you laugh a lot? Write that down. Is he mean to your sister sometimes? Also write that down. Based on the stuff about him that you like and dislike, maybe you can really see if you truly "like" him or not. :] That's what I do, and it's saved my life actually. I almost fell for a guy I had no feelings for, just because I was desperate because I was the only one at school without a boyfriend. After you figure out if you DO really like him, then you should just ask him. Remember, sending in another friend to ask probably won't work, because he might say something like, "No! Ew, seriously? That weirdo?" when he really means the opposite! Why would he say that? Because he might want to tell you in person, but he could be too shy or uncomfortable to say so. So if you open up that window and ask...who knows? Maybe he'll say a big YES!
Good luck! Don't let this opportunity go to waste. :]
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But with this situation, since he IS your best friend, then you need to just go up to him and ask him. BUT, before you do that, make a list of the things you like about him and the things you don't like about him. Does he make you laugh a lot? Write that down. Is he mean to your sister sometimes? Also write that down. Based on the stuff about him that you like and dislike, maybe you can really see if you truly "like" him or not. :] That's what I do, and it's saved my life actually. I almost fell for a guy I had no feelings for, just because I was desperate because I was the only one at school without a boyfriend. After you figure out if you DO really like him, then you should just ask him. Remember, sending in another friend to ask probably won't work, because he might say something like, "No! Ew, seriously? That weirdo?" when he really means the opposite! Why would he say that? Because he might want to tell you in person, but he could be too shy or uncomfortable to say so. So if you open up that window and ask...who knows? Maybe he'll say a big YES!
Good luck! Don't let this opportunity go to waste. :]
~Admin
Re: Help me? :l
I agreee with everyone else
but i really just wanna say
AWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!! THATS ADORABLE :3
but i really just wanna say
AWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!! THATS ADORABLE :3
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Thanks for all of your advice everyone! The 'lists' you suggested, Admin, helped me a lot.
I ended up asking him, and it went really well. Really, really well xD I swear I can't stop smiling
Thanks again, everyone.
I ended up asking him, and it went really well. Really, really well xD I swear I can't stop smiling
Thanks again, everyone.
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So let's gossip then, did helike u or not?
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Taylor:3 wrote:Thanks for all of your advice everyone! The 'lists' you suggested, Admin, helped me a lot.
I ended up asking him, and it went really well. Really, really well xD I swear I can't stop smiling
Thanks again, everyone.
OOOOO: awwwwww~ so, are you two in a relationship now? (:
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Re: Help me? :l
more importantly - DID YOU SNOG? xD
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Butterscotch wrote:Taylor:3 wrote:Thanks for all of your advice everyone! The 'lists' you suggested, Admin, helped me a lot.
I ended up asking him, and it went really well. Really, really well xD I swear I can't stop smiling
Thanks again, everyone.
OOOOO: awwwwww~ so, are you two in a relationship now? (:
yes, we are (:
Libbie wrote:more importantly - DID YOU SNOG? xD
NO xD
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AWWWWW CONGRATZ :3
...HAVE YOU SNOGGED YET? xD
...HAVE YOU SNOGGED YET? xD
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heh, thanks guys :3
and no, we haven't snogged xD we came kinda close, but y'know xD
and no, we haven't snogged xD we came kinda close, but y'know xD
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Taylor:3 wrote:heh, thanks guys :3
and no, we haven't snogged xD we came kinda close, but y'know xD
xD
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Admin wrote:Taylor:3 wrote:heh, thanks guys :3
and no, we haven't snogged xD we came kinda close, but y'know xD
xD
nonono, not like that xD. i pulled away as a joke and i was like "SIKEEE!"
heheh :3
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