Love suckz.

So today, my grade went to a roller-rink. My crush (that I love so so so much) has has a huge crush on this girl. He asked her out. (She said no, because she thinks he's a jerk) The fact is, people are talking about how they are perfect together, and telling the girl that he really likes/loves her and tries his best to be nice and cute.
I'm trying not to make a big deal out of it, it just that I love him. I want him to be happy, and if he loves her, I would want him to be with her. I just have a hard time having someone you love drool over some other girl who is prettier, and richer.

Ugh.

Foreva123 wrote:So today, my grade went to a roller-rink. My crush (that I love so so so much) has has a huge crush on this girl. He asked her out. (She said no, because she thinks he's a jerk) The fact is, people are talking about how they are perfect together, and telling the girl that he really likes/loves her and tries his best to be nice and cute.
I'm trying not to make a big deal out of it, it just that I love him. I want him to be happy, and if he loves her, I would want him to be with her. I just have a hard time having someone you love drool over some other girl who is prettier, and richer.

Ugh.

I understand you completely. It hurts; but try becoming close with him; try to become best friends. He might start liking you instead of the other girl.
This also happened to me; but if he just doesn't like you in that way just try to move on. I wish you best of luck.

UGH!!! I know exactly how you feel! This happened at my school three times! I wanted a little crush-time with someone, but when I checked it out, i ended up being an epic social failure. All the boys hate me now. thank God that i'll get new classmates next year!!! i say go with FrozenPast's idea. Get to know him better and become friends with him! Who knows? Maybe he'll break up with her and end up turning to his bestie. <3

I cant really become his friend...
He knows I like him (and the creepy things I say about him in my diary)
I tried saying I don't like him, but that didn't work.

omgahh...he read your diary?! Like what creepy things, if you don't mind my questioning? :!

Admin wrote:omgahh...he read your diary?! Like what creepy things, if you don't mind my questioning? :!

Well, one of my "friends" told him/everyone what was in it.

The creepy things like... a poster I drew... and a picture I drew... and... let's just say there a lipstick stains in my yearbook...

Foreva123 wrote:

Admin wrote:omgahh...he read your diary?! Like what creepy things, if you don't mind my questioning? :!

Well, one of my "friends" told him/everyone what was in it.

The creepy things like... a poster I drew... and a picture I drew... and... let's just say there a lipstick stains in my yearbook...

ohmigosh. I am so sorry! :'( That must really suck. I wish that people would just keep to their own business!!! Wow. Yeah in my diary, I drew like a thousand pictures of my crush, and sometimes I just sit and stare at them O__O

Admin wrote:Yeah in my diary, I drew like a thousand pictures of my crush, and sometimes I just sit and stare at them O__O

Thank god I'm not the only one.

xD yeah...don't worry. :]

Foreva123 wrote:So today, my grade went to a roller-rink. My crush (that I love so so so much) has has a huge crush on this girl. He asked her out. (She said no, because she thinks he's a jerk) The fact is, people are talking about how they are perfect together, and telling the girl that he really likes/loves her and tries his best to be nice and cute.
I'm trying not to make a big deal out of it, it just that I love him. I want him to be happy, and if he loves her, I would want him to be with her. I just have a hard time having someone you love drool over some other girl who is prettier, and richer.

Ugh.

Hmm...ok. If I were that boy, and there was a prettier, richer girl, and then there was you...and I had a huge crush on Princess-Face over there...hmm...but she didn't like me...(sorry just trying to get in the zone here xD)...Well see, princess-face does NOT deserve him, if she treats him like dirt like that! ;0 If I were you, I would try making friends with Miss princess over there, and get to know exactly what she thinks of your crush. And also, since your crush already knows you like him, why wouldn't you just give everything you've got and just go up to him. Tell him how much he means to you, and that you just want to see him happy! Tell him that you don't want to affect his crush on pretty girl, but that you just want him to know that you absolutely LOVE him. :} I mean what could you lose?!

Like.A.Boss wrote:Hmm...ok. If I were that boy, and there was a prettier, richer girl, and then there was you...and I had a huge crush on Princess-Face over there...hmm...but she didn't like me...(sorry just trying to get in the zone here xD)...Well see, princess-face does NOT deserve him, if she treats him like dirt like that! ;0 If I were you, I would try making friends with Miss princess over there, and get to know exactly what she thinks of your crush. And also, since your crush already knows you like him, why wouldn't you just give everything you've got and just go up to him. Tell him how much he means to you, and that you just want to see him happy! Tell him that you don't want to affect his crush on pretty girl, but that you just want him to know that you absolutely LOVE him. :} I mean what could you lose?!

Princess face hates my guts and other intestines, but I might try that things about telling him I love him.