Crushhh </3

Okay so, like the title says, I have a crush on someone right now.
I won't say "love" because that's tacky. and also because I don't think I'm in love. I don't think I really have the capability to love anyone anyways. :/

ANYWAYS. moving on. So, this guy that I like. From now on, in future posts about him, his name will be J. I'm not very close to J. He's a year older than me and is AMAZING in art. I suck at art sadly. I know his past crushes (through some serious stalking- erm I mean analyzing and I have my sources). His crushes were always the quiet, nice, really smart type and I'm almost the complete opposite of all of these! I'm loud, mean (as in sarcastic and name-calling), and not smart at all.

Other than that, I want to tell you guys what my plan for next school year is.
First of all, I'm going to join the volleyball team. (He's in it!!!) I'll practice over summer. Then, I want to try to get my grades up (which I think will be quite simple). The hard part to that is getting into NHS. For those of you who don't know what that is, google it. Okay nevermind, I'll tell you. It's national honor society. Then, I also want to join peer tutoring (again, he's in it) and continue joining Model UN.

So, what else do you guys think I should do? Any tips? Also, what do you think about my plan? I'm joining these things so I can get closer to him, learn his interests and stuff. (:

Sorry for the long post! I just really like him and afosidjkefd o////o

Don't change for a boy is my tip.

thanks (:
I don't think anyone should.

Well, Butterscotch, you are kind of changing yourself for a boy. But it is good that you are doing things like getting into a new sport and getting your grades up.

Just if you ever don't like doing the sport or whatever else your doing, stop it. Remember if he doesn't like you for who you are, and FORGET ABOUT HIM.

Alright then. Thank you!

I<3TRAINSforeva wrote:Well, Butterscotch, you are kind of changing yourself for a boy. But it is good that you are doing things like getting into a new sport and getting your grades up.

Just if you ever don't like doing the sport or whatever else your doing, stop it. Remember if he doesn't like you for who you are, and FORGET ABOUT HIM.

Yes she is kind of changing herself...but I think it's in a good way. Because, if she really wants to do the volleyball team and all that for herself, it's not changing for him. It's doing something she loves. And if she's getting her grades up, that's an immediate HURRAY!!! Because everyone should try their best to get better grades. :]

OH my gosh, Ally, I can NOT tell you how many boys I've had a crush on who have. not. liked. me. back! It gets totally frustrating!!! But if they don't like you, then they are the ones missing out...not you. I know that it's very hard to do this, and that love blinds this, but just always remember that there really are other guys out there!

Good luck
~Admin

P.S. Eventually you'll be rewarded with someone who likes you back. It might just take some time.

If you're getting your grades up Just for him.. well, You should be getting your grades up just because.. Is volleyball something that interests you? Is art? Is school? No. But it interests him. It sounds like you guys have nothing in common from what I hear- I think you should move on from him and find someone new-someone who shares the shame interests as you.. You shouldn't have to join the team or get your grades up or act shy for him to like you; he should like you for who you; a great, funny, beautiful girl! xD
Sorry if I sound harsh, it's just what i think xD

Taylor:3 wrote:If you're getting your grades up Just for him.. well, You should be getting your grades up just because.. Is volleyball something that interests you? Is art? Is school? No. But it interests him. It sounds like you guys have nothing in common from what I hear- I think you should move on from him and find someone new-someone who shares the shame interests as you.. You shouldn't have to join the team or get your grades up or act shy for him to like you; he should like you for who you; a great, funny, beautiful girl! xD
Sorry if I sound harsh, it's just what i think xD

Yeah, that's what I was trying to say.

I<3TRAINSforeva wrote:

Taylor:3 wrote:If you're getting your grades up Just for him.. well, You should be getting your grades up just because.. Is volleyball something that interests you? Is art? Is school? No. But it interests him. It sounds like you guys have nothing in common from what I hear- I think you should move on from him and find someone new-someone who shares the shame interests as you.. You shouldn't have to join the team or get your grades up or act shy for him to like you; he should like you for who you; a great, funny, beautiful girl! xD
Sorry if I sound harsh, it's just what i think xD

Yeah, that's what I was trying to say.

Oh well yeah, totally in that case it's wrong to change for him.